new update for 11/08/21 really messed everything up glitches are happening a lot. Items are disappearing  in the hot bar. we reloaded the game 4 times even turned off our pcs and still having major issues. grass disappears as well specially while building. please fix

odd. the patch specifically had a fix to items disappearing from the hot bar.

and are you taking more than a day to use the grass you cut down? they shortened the de-spawn time from three days to one in order to fix a memory issue that was causing peoples games to crash. use the grass pallets to store grass and keep it from de-spawning. 

honestly on our end it didnt fix anything it just made it worse we tried to get back on and play but when we do i can see my friends that are in the game on top of the stairs but they say there actually behind me, but i can see them on my screen on top of the stairs. other thing is whenever someone puts a grass floor down its invisible to everyone else except the person that put it down. and as i run its very glitchy. i play a bunch of games on my pc and this is the only game that i have problems with, but it only started after the update

i have not played with a friend since before the 11.4 patch, so i can't say for certain, but it sounds kind of like a connection issue that's causing lag and your games aren't syncing up properly. are you hosting the game or is your friend. i'm assuming both of your games are up to date?  you say it started after the update, so it could be that one of the fixes to issues regarding multiplayer broke something else.