Love the game me and my partner unfortunately we can't load into the game we have recently been playing. I know it's a new game and all but be really frustrating starting over anyone else having this problem and can it be fixed

I have my server wipe as well. I was removing my old files to not have so much cluster and my saved file never saved I guess. But now before I log off for the day, I make sure its night time, and I sleep because it auto saves for you, then I log off. (Haven't had a problem since.)