K, I made a website with detail on how to enable the console and how to un-tether the multiplayer game. I'm still working on it though, but figured I'd go ahead and post it so whoever can give me tips and find other ways to make the gameplay better.
https://sites.google.com/site/dungeonsiege3mod
or
www.tinyurl.com/ds3mod
Please forgive the un-complete site and leave feedback and help make this game more fun to play multiplayer. (Camera mod pls!)