2 game ending bugs I am experiencing with 2 major quests

[Rottnpeach]

1. The end of the Tristan storyline "casting off the veil."  It's all done except I'm supposed to debrief with him after all the action with Virgil and Tristan acts like nothing happened  - cannot complete question.  REALLY annoying. 

2. Even more annoying, there is a game ending but (for me, anways) where I'm trying to bridge the differences b/w Auntie and Ruth (the order).  I talked to Auntie first and kept things non-commital, then did all the Order/Ruth things and was told to strike a deal with Auntie.  I go back to the ship to re-engage Auntie and there are no options to move orward withthe quest "An equitable arrangement" (or whatever it's called).  i talk to her VPs and the only option is to 100% side with Auntie, which I don't want to do.  

I feel like Obsidian's update caused some major bugs.  I have no interest in playing this game anyway if these cannot be resolved sadly.

Garth