Don't want to be stuck with Dozens. Please Obsidian do something

I made the mistake of taking quests for the Dozens, as so many others have, without realizing it will later not let me work with the Knights.

I don't want to work with the Dozens.  Their beliefs don't line up with mine.

Please first of all make a patch that adds content to make it clear that you will lose ability to work with Crucible Knights if you accept quest for Dozens, and that perhaps you should meet them first before you decide.  This is particularly bothersome because of the way you are introduced to the city you will generally find the Dozens before you find the Knights.

Second, can you please provide a work around where you can reset these quests?  That's a big ask, I know, but I hate playing a game against my beliefs.  I support animancy!  I don't want to be stuck with the frikken Dozen just because I didn't know that accepting their second quest would force me to them.

I found this game late, and am stuck with it through Steam.  I see II has been released so focus on the first one will be waning.  But please help.  This is exactly the type of game I love.  I'm the type of person it was made for.  I hate being stuck here.  It's just leaving a bad taste in my mouth.

Begging for help (this of course assumes Obsidian people read this, which may be unlikely....)

Ed